This is quite the story, and everything comes out right in the end.
Two feral born kittens were dropped off at our house, just as we were preparing to head out of town for the Labor Day weekend, by their mamma. I could see them on our security camera at night. We had no idea where they were during the day, those first couple days.
We estimated they were 8-9 weeks at that point. The first vet later assigned a birthday of 6/24/24. The second vet later said 6/17/24.
I looked, as hard as I could, for a foster group to take them. They failed the first criteria for acceptance. They could not be handled. We could not get near them. They only appeared at night.
A friend who works with dog rescues was the only one who helped me. The cat people were absolutely no help. He said - if you want to save them, if you want them to have a good life, you are going to have to do it yourself.
That week by going out at 3am, and scattering them, I discovered the kittens were living in our metal downspout. It was a high of 95 most days. Luckily it only rained once that week. I have a very permanent memory of the tiger kitten, soaked, staring into my camera in the rain.
A wildlife whisperer (next morning) had to come take the downspout off the house and totally apart to get them out safely. They went in an xl dog crate with a bed bin attached, in our garage, to start. The wildlife whisperer helped me kitten proof the dog crate with lots of zip ties and boards and bungee cords.
Middle and I stayed home. My husband went to see youngest for the holiday weekend as planned.
We quickly expanded the space with a second xl dog crate. We built a very humane cat condo in our garage. It was double the size of what they would have had at a shelter. It was well stocked. They had 24/7 access to food and water. They had a roof over their head. Our garage was a pleasant temperature. We cleaned the cat condo every day.
When we started, they hid in their bin bed. They mostly came out at night, when we were not in the garage.
They ate, pottied and played most of the night, happy as larks. We could see them on a security camera I set up, in black and white, night vision.
If something startled them, they went diving thru the green tunnel into their bin bed. It took about 1.5 hours for them to come out again, in the very beginning.
Middle played with them through air holes in the sides of their bin bed. She used a wand. She made eye contact and gave them Churu. At this point, honestly, we were not sure what would happen. It was a very slow start.
Slowly they started to emerge and interact with us. But if something startled them, they dove back in their bin bed and it took a very long time for them to try again.
Eventually, they would pop right back out. The black kitten was always quicker to respond.
It took middle one week to be able to pet the black kitten. It took two weeks and two days to touch the tiger.
Shortly thereafter she was able to pick them up and hold them.
It took until the third week in September to get good photos of them -
Middle worked with them 1-2-3 hours a day for the Labor Day weekend, all of September, and early October. She estimates that she spent about 100 hours with them over the course of 6 weeks (in addition to working full time and having two dogs).
By the end, the black kitten had to have a harness and leash when out in the closed garage. Such an explorer! The tiger stayed right with middle.
Middle had no previous cat experience, but she has vast experience in behavior therapy. She is also a great dog trainer.
I kept her company, helped clean the crate every day, and I socialized the kittens from a distance.
We moved a TV and lawn chairs to the garage. I spent another 1-2-3 hours in the garage, watching TV or listening to an audio book on my phone, every day for most of that 6 weeks. The kittens heard the noise of the phone or TV and had me on close proximity and talking to them.
Middle and I are both allergic to cats. We both have asthma. I had just been thru a terrible asthma flare spring 2024. I kept my distance. I aired out the garage a lot. Middle kept a set of “cat clothes” to wear in the garage and showered immediately. We survived.