I went to a quilting retreat this weekend with one of my daughters.
I went solo last year and stayed the weekend. I also went to a retreat by myself in January and stayed the weekend. If I am by myself I stay.
This year, with daughter to drive, we came home each night and ended a day early. She did all the driving.
So, she took Friday off and we arrived just as the weekend started at 10am Friday.
About 5pm Friday, I hit my limit and was very tired. We headed for home. We arrived home 1 hour and 15 minutes later. We then had our whole evenings, as if it were a slightly late work night.
We arrived at 9am Saturday, just as most people were getting going. We were there in time for the 9:30am group photo.
We shopped briefly at three places Saturday morning. If I had been by myself, the shopping would have been much quicker, but that was okay.
We took all our own food, so we were actually at the event (in the room) much more than most other people who both shopped and ate at restaurants.
I got very tired, again about 5pm Saturday, we packed up and headed for home.
My husband packed both dogs in daughter’s car, on our driveway, and headed to her house. Daughter and I met him at her house, she unloaded her stuff, husband got in my car with me and we headed home. He then unpacked my stuff.
We did not go back Sunday, people start packing and leaving for home about noon, the event is cleaned up and over by 3pm. I find Sundays at a retreat awkward.
This worked well for us, we plan to do it this way again next spring.
For the January 2027 retreat, I am finding a buddy or two to go with me. I am going a day early so all my driving and unloading is Thursday. I am taking my own food. And I plan to come home early Sunday while I feel good to drive.



