my books - This Side of Paradise (1920) by F. Scott Fitzgerald

Wiki:

This Side of Paradise is the debut novel of F. Scott Fitzgerald. Published in 1920, and taking its title from a line of the Rupert Brooke poem Tiare Tahiti, the book examines the lives and morality of post-World War I youth. Its protagonist, Amory Blaine, is an attractive Princeton University student who dabbles in literature. The novel explores the theme of love warped by greed and status-seeking.

Usually when I have a hard time with a book, it comes from the feeling that the book needed a lot more editing (Winesburg Ohio).

I honestly did not think that with This Side of Paradise. I thought it was well written. I thought it hung together well. I just was not interested.

I have read The Great Gatsby. It was not a favorite either. I will say I liked The Great Gatsby (1925) better than This Side of Paradise (1920). I suppose this is as it should be. Paradise was his first book, Gatsby was five years later. In comparison, (I thought) there was more plot and character development in Gatsby.

If you are trying to remember, here is a list of all Fitzgerald's novels:
This Side of Paradise (1920)
The Beautiful and Damned (1922)
The Great Gatsby (1925)
Tender Is the Night (1934)
The Love of the Last Tycoon (originally The Last Tycoon, published posthumously, 1941)
There is a very long list of short stories also (bottom of this link).

Oldest said - I think you are just not a fan of Fitzgerald.

Maybe so.



There is one more Fitzgerald book on my list. I think it is Tender is the Night.

Both Tender and Paradise were on the list of books my one group read before I joined. I am still picking up a title here and there as I have time around my assigned monthly titles.

I belong to three book groups which each meet monthly, so I have three assigned books each month. Every once in a while one of the books is very short or I have already read it, and I have time to pick up an extra title. I listen to every thing I read on audio. 

I am hoping (at least) one of you has read Paradise and leaves a very long note for me. I would
like to have a closure on this book. It is always a little tough for me when I am not discussing a book
in detail at one of my groups. I am very used to reading with a purpose and then having a long discussion.  If anyone has perspective on Fitzgerald in general or Tender, that would be appreciated also.

Garage Sale Finds - lots of pictures

Two weeks ago I helped my friend who is moving (the same one from grocery shopping) with her garage sale.

I bought two desk chairs from her. One is going to oldest's room. The other one is in the homework/non-computer spot in our computer room.

I also bought a desk from her. Honestly, I bought it for middle to have in an apartment. It is sitting in the garage while middle and I look for a spot to tuck it in the house for now. Part of a quality bedroom set. Top measures 45" x 20". Pull out computer keyboard tray. Those are not drawers, it is actually a door with a good space that was probably meant for a computer tower.

I also bought a larger TV from her. Not a flat screen, but a big bulky one. It will come to good use this summer. Youngest and her friends are gamers. When there are 2-3 of them here, we move TV's in the living room so every one is on their own TV/system. They love this. It is quite the sight to see. Very loud, but our living room has glass pocket doors to block sound, yes, I planned.


There were other small odds and ends, most art items for middle's supply box from that first garage sale. And all kinds of baby clothes for middle's college friend who is having a baby the end of this month or first week in June. Middle came home and washed them all. We will take dinners and odds and ends down to her shortly. Sidenote - this girl was homeschooled. And her baby shower consisted of all her mom's home school mom friends, digging out their baby stuff and giving it to her. I think that is a charming idea. Think of the gems there would have been in that collection. Girl will not care that things are gently used. She will just be glad to have things.







Then last Friday, middle and I went to several garage sales in our own neighborhood.

We have one house we catch each year. She always has unusual things.

Once (several years ago) we bought these shelves (in my kitchen now).  My guess is they were old display pieces from a store.Or maybe they were originally from a kitchen unit of some kind. I love them.

Another year we bought a tabletop podium for middle (tucked in attic until she has classroom).



This year we bought this turntable. It was setting on the kitchen table for this picture, but I will not be leaving it there. Still looking for just the right spot. (really pleased with this find).

22" diameter

From this same lady, I bought an old bench (this year). I didn't have a specific spot in mind, but when we got home, it fits perfectly in the computer room. And when one person is on the computer, consulting with a second person, the bench gives the consultant somewhere easy to sit and see the screen.  40" long. And right next to the copy/fax/printer, it makes a great space for sorting papers.

We happened by the man who did my wood work for years. His daughter was having a garage sale at his house, he was there.

His work is all over our house -  night stands, quilt racks, shelving unit, lockers in my laundry room. An icon at our house. Truly.

It had been almost 5 years since I had seen him. He is now older and as we were talking, I realized his mind is slipping. Each thing I asked him had to be slowly repeated, there was a long delay and then he would half answer.

Then I looked around his garage and there were NO saws or drills, etc.  I asked and he said it was all at his son's. I said that is very handy - you now have your own wood working guy.

There were three things, at the sale, he had made - chessboard, small doll cradle, real baby cradle.

This one is 9" long.

This board is 12" square.

We bought the first two and then left. Half way down the street I turned around and went back for the cradle. No grand babies in sight at my house. But I knew if I didn't get it, I would be very sad at some point in the future.

I would have walked by any (real) baby cradle at any other garage sale. But because he made it, I wanted it very badly. He has meant a lot to me over the years. 

When my husband came home, I told him it had really shaken me to see the man's mind was going. He was such a rock in his family.  The kind of father and grandfather and neighbor and friend men should be.


We stopped by a couple more sales in our neighborhood. At one, middle bought a heavy hopscotch rug which will work for bible school this year.




At another, I bought another doll cradle (26" long). My guess is it is 40-50 years old. Really please with this one too. A real gem. I will tuck a doll in it and find a spot in the house. I have a very small rocker (It was my great or great great grandmothers on my father's side) that will go with it nicely.

If you click on the 'house pictures' label at the bottom of this post, all kinds of photos will pop. I have posted lots of pictures over the years. In late June, I will be busy for a couple weeks. Instead of posts, I am posting these type of pictures, a couple a day, the whole time I am gone. You might not want me to come back and start writing again, you will be very used to a daily peek in our house. . .

my books - My Ántonia (1918) by Willa Cather

Wiki:

My Ántonia, first published in 1918, is considered one of the greatest novels by American writer Willa Cather. It is the final book of her "prairie trilogy" of novels, the companion volumes being O Pioneers! and The Song of the Lark.

Here is the note I sent to my group facilitator last month:

I had extra time this month. I read O Pioneers! and The Song of the Lark first. Now starting on My Ántonia (On Book II chapter 1). The Song of the Lark is loosely related to O Pioneers!. The granddaughter of one of the original Pioneer brothers is the main character in Lark. O Pioneers! takes place in Nebraska. Lark takes place in Colorado, Chicago and New York. My Ántonia is back to the great plains in Nebraska. So far there has not been any character over lap (that I have caught), but My Ántonia is very much the flavor of O Pioneers!. All three of the books are/were very good, but I think My Ántonia will turn out to be the strongest of the three. So far it is most excellent. Very good pick. Vickie

It did turn out to be rich and absolutely wonderful (for me).

One of the men in my group described My Ántonia as a dark Little House on the Prairie. If you remember, I said much the same thing when talking about O Pioneers!.  And I talked about the fact that Laura Ingalls Wilder purposely left out a lot of the true life things that happened on the Prairie. Willa Cather did not dwell on them, but she did include them.

My group started listing all the "dark" stories within My Ántonia and realized there were a lot. There were two suicides and a murder suicide for example. One was a strong part of the book. The other two were tiny little stories within the book. As we were discussing all the little stories within the book, we realized some of them, maybe all of them were true stories borrowed and rearranged to fit the story. The book is a collection of little stories. It was not serialized, but it reminded us of other books that were.

One of the group members said the darker stories were what kept her going (interest) in the book.

If you have read this book, you might remember the story the two Russians told about the wolves. Google the key points from that story, leaving out all references to Willa Cather and My Ántonia, and you will find a New York Times article from over a hundred years ago. That was a slightly adapted version of a true event.

And going back to The Song of the Lark, if you remember what happened to the railroad man who loved her, something similar happened to my great, great grandfather. If you remember in the book, someone (in the story) said railroad men only averaged about 11 years on the job.

The entire book was not dark. And it is not a tragedy. These little stories were just here and there within the book.

Several (at my group) felt like Eliza Jane and I that the book touched our immigrant and settler core as a country. And we loved it for that (Eliza Jane was talking about O Pioneers!, but same is true for My Ántonia). 

Many talked about Willa Cather's strong female characters.  We talked about gender as it relates to voice. Willa's voice was male in this book. We talked about how that might have allowed her to say different things than she might as a female voice.

As we went around the group there was one 2 1/2, a couple 3's, a couple 5's and mostly 4's (on a scale of 1-5) on how much each person liked this book. I was one of the 5's. The other 5's were planning to read the first two books.

my books - The Song of the Lark (1915) by Willa Cather

When I finished O Pioneers!, I went directly into the second book in this series - The Song of the Lark.

O Pioneers! is centered around the Bergson family (who have one daughter and three sons) and takes place in Nebraska.  One of the Bergson son's daughters marries a clergy man and moves with him to Moonstone, Colorado and raises their family there (this all happens between the end of O Pioneers! and the start of The Song of the Lark). One of the daughters of that Colorado/preacher's family, Thea Kronborg, is the main character in The Song of the Lark.  The original characters/family from O Pioneers are barely mentioned and not a part of the second book, but the history of the family is there in subtext.

The book's title (The Song of the Lark) comes from a painting at The Art Institute of Chicago. The art museum and the specific painting are mentioned in the book.  I remembered the painting as soon as I saw it. I spent a lot of time at The Art Institute the year ME was with us. Her law firm was in Chicago. While she was meeting with her lawyers, I would spend lovely afternoons at the museum. I think I covered the entire museum,  every single piece, that year.



Very interestingly, although O Pioneers! and My Antonia (books 1 and 3 in the trilogy) are listed in Sparknotes, The Song of the Lark is not. It should be (in my opinion).

I am not linking to the Wiki notes, because they give away too much of the plot of the book (in my opinion).



When I started this book, I was a little nervous it was going to be a daddy thing nearly bordering on a pedophile thing. Because older men gravitate toward Thea in this book. It starts right at the beginning of the book when she is 10-12 years old.

There is a 30 year old who is waiting for her to grow up so he  can ask her to marry him (for example). But he IS waiting until she is 18-20. So it isn't actually a pedophile thing. It is more the type of thing that happened back then when families thought of those men as settled and reliable and able to provide for a family. And in this book, Thea's mother, does not approve of this man's plan anyway. 

At various points in the book the characters even discuss how older men gravitate toward her. It is actually part of the plot. There is nothing icky about it. It is part of the character development. I just happened to pick up on it right when the book started. It is a subject that raises my hackles.

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. (If you loved the Little House series, I suspect you might love this series too.)

And as soon as I finished this second one, I went right into the third in the trilogy, which is Willa Cather's most famous - My Antonia.

my books - O Pioneers! (1913) by Willa Cather

Wiki writes:

O Pioneers! is a 1913 novel by American author Willa Cather. It was her first novel of her Great Plains trilogy, and written after she was living and working in New York. O Pioneers! tells the story of the Bergsons, a family of Swedish immigrants in the farm country near the fictional town of Hanover, Nebraska, at the turn of the 20th century.  

Here is the context section from Sparknotes for O Pioneers! 



When I first looked at this book and saw 'prairie' and 'trilogy', I wondered if it was a set I should have read to my kids. My mind went to Laura Ingalls Wilder. Her Prairie series is beloved at our house.

Laura Elizabeth Ingalls Wilder (February 7, 1867 – February 10, 1957) was an American author who wrote the Little House series of books based on her childhood in a pioneer family. Laura's daughter, Rose, inspired Laura to write her books.

No, O Pioneers! is not a book to be read to kids (in my opinion). The book starts with the death of the father which leaves the family at risk. And then the main story is about two sets of relationships which are not simple. They are more adult understanding topics.

To some it might be a sad book. To me it was more of a 'what actually happened' book.

I didn't look for the link, but I am pretty sure I remember reading Laura Ingalls Wilder addressing this topic (what really happened) in writing her own books. She left the death of a brother (or maybe even two) out of her own books. The cold winters and lack of food and challenges are still in her books. But she left out things she feared might cause anxiety for children. Remember Laura was writing her books in the 1930's and 1940's, long before The Hunger Games. And honestly, I did not and will not read The Hunger Games. I have to watch my own anxiety.

O Pioneers! is written in a beautiful, slow, simple style. The audio edition I used was just under 7 hours and read by Barbara McCulloh, lovely voice, well matched to this book.

Might be my shortest read ever, certainly my shortest read lately.

I did enjoy this book. I did not need to keep a list of characters. I knew what was happening all the time.

I enjoyed the fact families were comprised of recent immigrants or first generation American kids/grand kids. The families (in O Pioneer!) were Swedish and Norwegian and German and French/Catholic.

My husband's family is very German. My maternal grandmother was a full Swed, born in this country to two immigrants. We are Irish Catholic. The (old Catholic) churches in the area where we now live were founded by French Catholic Priests.

A very simple book to be enjoyed between complex books. Or a good book to read on travel days. I could have finished the whole book on my flights/airport time to/from the east coast for oldest's spring break.



When I finished O Pioneers!, I went directly into the second book in this series - The Song of the Lark (next week's review).

O Pioneers! is centered around the Bergson family (who have one daughter and three sons) and takes place in Nebraska.  One of the Bergson son's daughters marries a clergy man and moves with him to Colorado and raises their family there (this all happens between the end of O Pioneers! and the start of The Song of the Lark). One of the daughters of that Colorado/preacher's family is the main character in The Song of the Lark. The original characters/family from O Pioneers are barely mentioned and not a part of the second book. The books are stand alone from each other. But also are lovely together.

Kitchen Pictures / Household Hints

Organic (fresh) strawberries were on sale at the food coop. I walked by them the first time. But they were on my mind and I thought of an experiment to try.  Two days later, I bought the remaining two packages. I brought them home, washed and cored them, cut them in quarters and then spread them out on this cookie sheet (it might actually be a jelly roll pan, because there is a edge/side) and put them in the freezer. 

I put the frozen strawberries in a freezer bag. The tray above fit in a one quart freezer bag. This is not the whole two packages of fresh, because youngest and husband ate a few while I was prepping. This worked well, the strawberries ARE individually frozen, none are stuck together. This is flash freezing and worked well with CUT strawberries (CUT was my experiment). The youngest, middle, husband have been taking a few out to add to yogurt or a plate of other food. They do not eat them frozen (can eat raspberries right from the freezer). But in the 1/4 sliced form, they thaw quickly.

The bag on the left says "asparagus/chicken soup" and the bag on the right has a V for vegetarian (I have two at my house) and is Lentil soup. That is one serving each, of soup cold from the refrigerator in one quart (each) bags. I put them, flat, in the freezer to keep an easy to thaw (not a big block, but a flat plain) shape. Yes, the trick to this is to be sure those zip lock seals are really zip locked!

This is Buffalo Vegetable soup, clearly not vegetarian, that has been frozen. My husband eats soup a lot. These one serving sizes work well for him. He gets one out of the freezer, and wedges it upright in the refrigerator to thaw. Then he eats it within a day or two. This soup was all sold, one serving size, at our food coop. Each one was dated and marked down. I pick up soup there, and freeze for my husband on a very regular basis. It gives him a much wider variety. It is no different than I would make at home, because I cook from many of their same recipes.  I still make soup at home. But honestly, no, I am not going to cook a big batch of Buffalo (for example, girls will not eat it because of meat, I cannot eat it because of many of the vegetables). Buffalo is very good. Tastes like beef. Better numbers. 

Earth Day

Earth Day is observed on April 22 and was started in the United States in 1970 by Senator Gaylord Nelson to create awareness for the Earth's environment and to encourage conservation efforts. In 1990, Earth Day was taken international, and today, more than 500 million people in 175 countries observe Earth Day.

Potty Training and Pregnancy Nausea

My kids are 15, 19, 23 (as I write this). My  nephew is 17, my niece is 21. But I do remember.


I left this note (recently) for a blogger who is potty training. I know there are several of you with little kids. Middle reads every day and is always looking for new information, so I thought I would save it.


Things that worked well for me (potty):

 I never asked kids if they needed to go.

Instead I sent them to go.

Do you want to go potty in the big bathroom or the little bathroom? gave them a sense of choice – but sent them TO GO.

I had them go every time we switched activities.

Go potty and then pick out the game you want to play.

Go potty and then it is story time.

Go potty and get on your swimming suit, time to go to the pool.

I had them go before we left to go somewhere, and then go again as soon as we got there. and then again as soon as we left that place. Especially with middle, I knew where every potty in town was located.

I think boys should be taught to pee standing (from the start). It is just more fun for them. It is socially more acceptable. (Yes, there are men who have gotten 'stuck' on sitting down and it is just weird in our society.)

I kept them in diapers at night.

I gave them only water to drink (I stopped juice when potty training. Before potty training, anytime they were drinking juice, I cut the juice in half with water. And they were not drinking juice very often. They did not drink any other sugared drinks. They have been water only for most of their lives. They drink orange juice, full strength, not diluted, now as adults.).

Sugared drinks, even if it is natural sugar, has a huge impact on potty training and sleeping dry through the night, especially for boys.

Sugared drinks make a big difference in bladder urgency/control for grown women also. Water only is important for women too – sugar and caffeine create urgency/control problem. I primarily drink water – except I now have 1/2 c oj with breakfast (working with a female issues doc on my food and supplements). When I was drinking tea, even though it was herbal, non caffeine, it created bladder issues. Water only - no bladder issues.

It is important not to start potty training until the kid seems like they are mature enough to handle it. Do not start unless you can make it a positive experience. If it is going to be a power struggle, do not do it until you can figure out how to be in the right frame of mind. Potty training is a common goal, doing what is best of the kid thing, not the rule of the parent thing.








I have left this note, for pregnant women with nausea problems many times -

Nausea is caused by unsteady blood sugar.

As the blood sugar takes a dive, nausea hits.

Protein is what holds blood sugar.

Eat non-starchy veggies and protein mostly. Make carbs serving size only and a complex carb. And always eat a protein when eating a carb. A protein serving size is 7-10g.

Eat regularly spaced meals, eat healthy (not to satisfy a craving). 

Many women will crave things like orange juice and fruit.

Their doctors might even tell them to eat saltine crackers.

But both those things will cause more problems than good, because they cause blood sugar to go up and then plummet.

Fried foods will cause blood sugar problems too.

I have suggested taking food (protein and complex carb for example) with them to bed, to many a mom, to eat in the early hours, before rising, so blood sugar is stable when they start their day.

And I add -
This is (all) not something you will (ever) hear from a doctor (unless you are very lucky). This is not an area most doctors study. You will be very lucky if you even hear it from a nutritionist.

Kitchen Pictures / Household Hints

We replaced our dishwasher a couple months ago. I now suspect all we needed to do was switch soap products. I switched from regular, powder Cascade to the two shown in this picture. The bin on the left holds soap packets. The container on the right is rinse solution.

This is the inside of my dishwasher door. The blue thing is the soap packet. The lid is off the rinse concentrate compartment. I squirt rinse solution in there once a month and then reattach the lid (shown below the hole).  My clear glass dishes are now pristine. 

I have three or four of these plastic cutting boards. They are very old. I pour bleach on them, before I put them in the dishwasher, if they are stained. They come out very white each time. The bleach does not appear to do anything to the plastic. 

My kitchen is full of deep drawers, very few cupboards. This picture is looking down into the inside of (half of) one of these drawers. That is my measuring cup collection. They are contained in old ice cube bins from a variety old freezers. We use a lot of measuring cups every day. I use three 1/2 cup containers every day at breakfast. I use one for raw egg whites (going into pan) and then another for first my orange juice (to take my supplements, I drink right out of the measuring cup) and then the same one for the milk for my oatmeal. The third 1/2 cup to measure the dry oatmeal, stays in the oatmeal bin always.

My books - Far from the Madding Crowd (1874) by Thomas Hardy

Wiki notes:

Far from the Madding Crowd (1874) is Thomas Hardy's fourth novel and his first major literary success. It originally appeared anonymously as a monthly serial in Cornhill Magazine, where it gained a wide readership. Critical notices were plentiful and mostly positive. Hardy revised the text extensively for the 1895 edition, and made further changes for the 1901 edition.

SparkNotes explains the title:

One of Hardy's central concerns in all of his writing was the problem of modernity in a society that was rapidly becoming more and more industrial. One of his projects as a writer was to create an account of life in the swiftly changing Dorsetshire as it had once been. He was particularly interested in the rituals and histories of that part of England, as well as the dialect of its locals. The title Far From the Madding Crowd suggests avoidance of the life of a city, modernized government, crowds and industry; in it, Hardy tries to fashion a portrait of what he saw as an endangered way of life and to create a snapshot for future generations.

Hardy took the title from Thomas Gray's poem - Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard, 1751:

'Far from the madding crowd's ignoble strife,
Their sober wishes never learn'd to stray;
Along the cool sequester'd vale of life
They kept the noiseless tenor of their way.'

I had always thought it was Maddening, not Madding.

I have no idea if this is correct, but found this explanation:

By historical convention, "madding crowd" is the idiom, dating from the late 16th century. Unlike "maddening," which describes the effect on the observer, "madding" (= frenzied) describes the crowd itself.

Thomas Hardy also wrote Tess of the D'Urbervilles. When I started Tess, middle warned me it was a T R A G E D Y. Especially at that time, it was important for me to know (tragedy) in advance of reading Tess. So before I started Far from the Madding Crowd, I called middle and asked her to check on SparkNotes and see if Madding  was a tragedy too.  She said while it was not necessarily all happy, she did not think it was the tragedy Tess was.

She is correct, not all happy, but certainly not a tragedy.




Far from the Madding Crowd was a bit too predictable for me. It will be interesting to see if the other people at my book group have this impression also. There are members who really love Hardy.

It will (also) be telling to see what the people who love Jane Austen thought of this book. There were characters who reminded me of Austen classics.

It was 13 hours, 35 minutes on 12 CD's. Narrated by Nathaniel Parker who was excellent.

So, it was a good read. Not a great read (for me). Glad I listened, lots for interesting discussion.

my books - Moby Dick (1851) by Herman Melville

Yes, I read Moby Dick.


WIKI:

Moby-Dick; or, The Whale is a novel by Herman Melville, first published in 1851. It is considered to be one of the Great American Novels and a treasure of world literature. The story tells the adventures of wandering sailor Ishmael, and his voyage on the whale ship Pequod, commanded by Captain Ahab. Ishmael soon learns that Ahab has one purpose on this voyage: to seek out Moby Dick, a ferocious, enigmatic white sperm whale. In a previous encounter, the whale destroyed Ahab's boat and bit off his leg, which now drives Ahab to take revenge.

Here is the context section from SparkNotes.


This is not a book I thought I would ever read.

If you remember, I have been slowly working my way through (several years worth of) classics my one reading group read before I joined. Moby Dick was on that list. And when I asked if there was anything on that list that I should not bother reading, they all chorused - MOBY DICK.

So, I had dismissed it from my mind.

Then one of my other reading groups (which is a dictatorship) assigned Moby Dick. He did it kindly, assigning a very short book the month before Moby, and gave us a two months heads up.

I do like this group (A LOT) and actually love the dictator/facilitator, that is my private/pet name for him. He is young, smart, very laid back. But he picks all the books (himself). And usually only tells us the assignment one month in advance. I am spoiled, my other two groups plan the titles as a group and schedule the titles for a whole year. But the dictator does push us to read things (like Moby Dick) that we would probably not read other wise. He is the same one who had us read 4 plays by Chekhov one month. And Reading Lolita in Tehran and Lolita another month. Yes, sometimes I sigh, but I still complete the assignment in full, and I am always glad I did. I always tell him I am glad I did. I sent him an email when I had 3 hours left on Moby telling him I was almost done and loved it. 

I downloaded Why Read Moby-Dick? by Nathaniel Philbrick from Audible, two months ago, still not sure I was going to read Moby. Mr Philbrick might have had the best of intentions, but when I got to the part about how Herman Melville originally wrote a whaling manual, and then decided to turn it into a novel, and inserted the story, here and there, around the whaling manual, I was not at all persuaded. Not at all. (The whaling manual must have been very short because the majority of Moby Dick is story, not manual).

Then I happened to notice another blogger, who does not write about books, had ready Moby and loved it. What are the odds of that - hardly ever mentions a book and then the ONE she mentions, repeatedly, is Moby Dick. She has even read it more than once. She tries to read it every year. So, with that, I thought - I can at least TRY.

I started (exactly) two weeks before the meeting of this group. So, he gave us two months to read and it took me a month and a half to make up my mind to DO IT.

The copy (Moby Dick) I used was from Audible. It was read by Frank Muller (who I always like) and was 21.3 hours long. There were free copies available around the web, but since I was a bit on the fence and needed as many positive things as possible, I spent one of my credits at Audible on Moby. I did not use a credit on Why read Moby? I bought that outright.

So, I started my two week read with the pace of 2 hours of Moby, Monday-Friday, and picking up extra on the weekend if I was in my car. That was a good way of looking at it. And it did work very nicely.

This is not my longest read, Bleak House was 33 hours, The Woman in White was 25 hours. Those were just the first two that came to mind, my guess is there are other long books on my lists.

To be very honest, before I even finished Moby, I was already saying - I will read this book again.

One of my other book groups is considering it for next year. If they do, I will read it again with them. If not, I will read it on my own. There have been other books where I have finished, and turned right around and read them again to see what I missed the first time.

It is extremely well written. The language is beautiful.

I didn't mind the 'whaling manual' parts. To be honest, I found it interesting to know how they catch them, how they clean them, all the different types. Those parts did not bore me (remember I loved the daily details in Robinson Crusoe). And really the 'whaling manual' parts are needed in the story, because most of us do not know anything about whaling. We cannot understand that risk, the danger, if we do not understand what they are doing.

And all the stories were fun reads for me.   The book is very much a collection of adventures weaving in and out of the different chapters of the book (with the whaling manual inserted where needed). There are 135 chapters. Moby himself only appears in a couple of the chapters. The rest of the stories are about all kinds of things.

If you are a classic book kind of person, yes this book is a must read. And I found as I mentioned, here and there around town, that I was reading it, people were sort of tipping their hat in respect.

I will give you a hint. If you read Moby, you should not be thinking about skipping any parts of the book. All are needed. It is not a book that needs edited or shortened. It is a book that needs read more than once to understand it all. There is a lot there. Every word is sort of priceless.

There is a SparkNotes entry (link at top of this post) with very good chapter summaries. I did not read the summaries as I read the book, but I did read them to refresh my mind before my group discussion.

There were twelve people at the discussion and everyone LOVED the book. I will add these are hardcore classic book people. We had a lot of discussion.

Several had read it before, but read it again last month. One had read it last summer, read it again last month, but this time listened to it (I wear off on people with my audible habit) and said it was an entirely different book that way. He happens to be an college literature professor who specializes in Old English (think Beowolf at college level, it is not an easy class).

It would be an excellent book to take as a class. It would also be an excellent book to read and discuss with friends (like read 10-20 chapters at a time and discuss).

One of the men in the group read this book, out loud, to his wife all during her last pregnancy, at bed time, so she could unwind and go to sleep. I thought that was lovely. Really lovely.

Figuring my food - cilantro and lime chicken

I found this recipe.

I simplified it putting a large bunch of fresh cilantro (from my produce box) in the food processor, squeezing 5 smallish limes, and spreading both of those over thinly sliced boneless skinless chicken breasts in a sprayed 9 x 11. I covered and baked at 350 for 1 hour. Very good.

Post Office Cubbies

My husband's mother died September 2010.

Husband brought back a whole truck load of stuff.

Our house was already fairly full.

But we managed to squeeze everything in the nooks and crannies.

As soon as kids start moving out, things will go (oldest is in a furnished apartment right now).




Post office cubbies came in the truck.

I have always loved it.

Husband's mother used it for wine.

I don't keep wine in the house (nor drink it).

It sat in the garage for a couple months before we found a spot.

I am not sure if I thought of it or middle did.

It is 45" x 29".

That is the corner of our living room, right next to the TV.

All of those wires and black things are gaming controllers and cords.

You can just see the Wii on top.

Very good use for it.

My husband did an outstanding job in what he chose from his mother's house. There was NOTHING that came out of the truck where I thought - what were you thinking. NOTHING. He is the youngest of four boys. They did a good job of deciding who got what. Some of the things my husband wanted, none of the other three (single, no kids) wanted. And versa visa. Mirrors for example. There were really good ones, my husband happily took them all, knowing girls would want them in future years. Paintings. Many good ones came. Wooden chests and boxes. Baskets. Footstools. A grandfather clock. Dresser with carved wood. A light blue love seat and chair (also with a lot of carved wood) that are now in our bedroom. We got the stuff that had more of a feminine look to it. 

I was especially pleased when we unearthed these cubbies, unloading the truck.

My husband had remembered I had always loved it.

Even if I had never said a word, I think he would have known any way.

It is very much like something I would like.

my books - State of Wonder (2011) by Ann Patchett

Wiki notes:

State of Wonder (2011) is a novel by American author Ann Patchett. It is about a drug company employee who journeys to Brazil, to bring back information about seemingly miraculous drug research being conducted there by Dr. Swenson on behalf of the company.

So, this was a contemporary read for me. Not a classic. The title was assigned by one of my book groups.

There were 11 discs/12.3 hours in the audible edition I used, read by Hope Davis (who was very good).

I had no idea what to expect with this book. I listened to it on the plane on the way to and from Charleston, SC and then finished it within a couple days of returning home. (I listened to the whole of The Lemon Tree (between flights) while we were there. I had no trouble dropping right back into State of Wonder.) I finished this one, in the house, because I was very curious to see how it ended. I do not have driveway moments (NPR term) as much as I have headset in the house moments.

State of Wonder is very much a story. No historical background. Not an intellectual read the way One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich or Lemon Tree was. So this book came up just in the right place (after those two) on my reading list. A welcome break after two thinking cap kinds of books. (Wait until you see what I read after this one, stay tuned for next week's review).

To be honest, I am not sure what I would have thought of State of Wonder if I had been reading other contemporary, non classics, books all at the same time. It might have seemed light to me then. But in view of the heavier reading I was doing before and after this book, it was very much enjoyed.

There are not a lot of characters in State of Wonder. I did not feel I needed to keep notes. I found the story to be captivating and believable*** and interesting. I had no idea where the story was going at any point in the book.

***I am the one, in every reading group I attend, who says - odd coincidences do happen, if you keep your eyes open and can see them, strange sets of events happen all the time. 

It also confirmed South America stays on the NO TRAVEL ZONE list for all of my kids.

my books - The Lemon Tree: An Arab, a Jew, and the Heart of the Middle East (2006) by Sandy Tolan

Here is a bio page from Sandy Tolan's own website. There is all kinds of other, interesting information on the sidebar of that page.

Here is a NPR piece (All Things Considered, 2006) where Sandy Tolan talks about his book. On that same page, near the bottom, is another link to the original Fresh Air documentary from 1998 (basis of the book).

The Lemon Tree was 11 audible hours and was read by the author. He was very, very good. If you like NPR, you will love his voice/style.

The oldest and I listened to this book, in the car, on the way to and from Charleston, SC.

We both enjoyed it very much. We both learned a lot.

The book weaves the historical events and also follows the lives of two individuals and their families:
Bashir Al-Khayri, a Palestinian (male),
Dalia Ashkenazi Landau, an Israeli (female).

The book starts in 1967 when Bashir knocks on the gate of his former home and Dalia answers the door. The lemon tree (if you are wondering about the title) was planted in the backyard of this home by Bashir's family.

The book then goes back in time to early life in Palestine and also life in Bulgaria (for Dalia's family) and the whole sequence of events that rolled into present day Israel. Presidents Carter and Clinton, all those peace summits, and the cast of characters from the PLO and surrounding countries in the Middle East are all in there. And the happenings of both families are in there too.

There is a LOT of data. We frequently stopped the CD and talked about various points. It was very much an intellectual read. It was a great discussion read.

I am almost 52, oldest is 23. We have little active memory of most of the events in Palestine/Israel. I of course remembered more (first hand) than the oldest. But I did not remember a lot.  All kinds of things came back to me as we listened. Oldest has been keeping up on current events in that area more since we finished the book.

And we realized, listening, that we have (mostly) heard the pro-Israeli side of things. We did not realize that Israel has done some really nasty things over the years.

Neither one of us realized that Jewish people were moving into Palestine prior to WWI (yes I,  not II).

We knew nothing about the lives of Jews in Bulgaria during WWII.

We loved this book. But again, it is an intellectual read in NPR documentary style.

my books - One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich (1962) by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn

Wiki noted:

One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich is a novel written by Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn, first published in November 1962 in the Soviet literary magazine Novy Mir (New World). The story is set in a Soviet labor camp in the 1950s, and describes a single day of an ordinary prisoner, Ivan Denisovich Shukhov.

The book's publication was an extraordinary event in Soviet literary history, never before had an account of Stalinist repression been openly distributed. The editor of Novy Mir, Aleksandr Tvardovsky, wrote a short introduction for the issue, titled "Instead of a Foreword", to prepare the journal's readers for what they were about to experience.

One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich was specifically mentioned in the Nobel Prize presentation speech when the Nobel Committee awarded Solzhenitsyn the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1970.

Often considered the most powerful indictment of the USSR's Gulag ever made, One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich forced Western intellectuals to acknowledge their sins of omission in regards to the Soviet human rights record. A decade later at a US-Soviet summit, a human rights agenda was created as a topic of concern. It appeared on the Independent newspaper's poll of the Top 100 books, which surveyed more than 25,000 people.

There is a list of the main characters included in the Wiki page (linked above). Yes, the names are foreign and the list might be helpful. Here is another list of characters from Sparknotes.



Here is the SparkNotes Context section which gives (more) background on Solzhenitsyn.



So yes, I listened to a book which takes place in a (assumed to be) Siberian Russian Labor Camp.

This book was far less graphic than All Quiet on the Western Front.

It was also far less graphic (from what I understand) than Unbroken, which I skipped when one of my book groups read it.

One Day in the Life isn't really graphic at all. There is almost no blood. They are not getting up and beating everyone, everyday (not at all).

The story is exactly what the title says - the book starts when Ivan gets up (one random day) and ends when he goes to bed. It is simply about daily life in a labor camp.





The audio addition I used was just over 5 hours (one of my shortest ever) and was read by Richard Brown.

I went to Audible.com and pulled up all of the books narrated by Richard Brown and listened to a clip of each one. I suspect he has a British accent (I am terrible at placing accents) as I listen to the other clips. But it seems he changed it up a bit for One Day in the Life. If someone had told me he was raised in Russia but then moved to England, I would have believed it.I could not find a site that told me for sure, there are several Richard Browns.  I sent a suggestion in to Audible that they add a biography section on their Audible narrators to the site.

While it is not graphic, I guess it is not really easy listening either. They are freezing and wish they had more food. It is an intellectual read of sorts because it is a translation and because it is a non-popular topic.

I did enjoy the book in an intellectual, different culture, way. I would not have liked to listen to 20 hours of this story line, but 5 hours was an interesting read.  And it is probably a book that everyone should read. I plan to work my way through (any of) the Pulitzer and Nobel (that I have missed) at some point in the future.

Sweatshirt blankets

Sweatshirt blankets can be found in most university bookstores (these days).

This is the closest link I could find. Cotton/poly blend, heavy, 50 x 60 is a close match.

I am not sure if they are a new thing. We started seeing them when the oldest started undergrad college 5 years ago. I do not remember seeing them when my husband and I were in college (1979-1983). So somewhere in that 25 year time span, sweatshirt blankets were designed and began being marketed.

I think the first one we bought was for my mother's husband - because, in the end, it was very difficult to come up with gift ideas for him.

I put a sweatshirt blanket on my birthday or Christmas list last year. Mine is green and has oldest's undergrad college emblem on it. It lives in my car. I use it ALL THE TIME.

Oldest has a blue one, also from his undergrad school. His lives in his apartment.

Thank goodness I thought to ask him to throw it in the car before he picked me up at the airport last Saturday. I napped with it in the car. I used it under the hotel sheets/blankets, next to my body, each night. I need a room that is pretty cold to sleep well, but then freeze.  It is two fold, I do better if I breathe cold air, I get cold easily.

When oldest and youngest travel with me, they bring a twin size fleece blanket which they use in bed the same way (because they are sleeping in the same cold room, with me).

Sweatshirt blankets would make a very good gift idea for many people. College emblem ones are good in some families. Special ones with a family crest or family name would be another idea.

My books - The Good Earth (1931) by Pearl S. Buck

Wiki wrote:

The Good Earth is a novel by Pearl S. Buck published in 1931 and awarded the Pulitzer Prize for the Novel in 1932. The best-selling novel in the United States in both 1931 and 1932, it was an influential factor in Buck's winning the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1938. It is the first book in a trilogy that includes Sons (1932) and A House Divided (1935).

Here is the SparkNotes Context section which does not give away the plot of the book.

All three of my kids had read this book (required reading list the summer before freshman year) before I did.

All three of my kids loved this book. I sent each a text the day I started it. And got three texts back saying how good it was all the way thru.

We all agree that one needs to be an experienced classic book reader (probably) to enjoy this book. Less sophisticated high school readers, in all three of my kids Freshman English classes (for example), did not like it at all.

The story is simple and easy to understand. I personally think the whole book is strong and captivating. There were no weak areas in my opinion.

There were parts which were very sad to youngest (she is a crier, so is my husband, they are quite the pair at movies and plays).  It was not sad to me. It was simply how they lived and what they did and what happened.

The ending was ironic as it is exactly what happened in my mother's family.

Different book, different ending - I was listening to a woman tell about how two of her children were complaining she played (serious) favorites with the third. I listened to what she said and the two were correct, she was not being fair or nice. And she was not setting her children and grandchildren up to have (positive) relationships with each other. I wanted to say to her - you need to read the story of Cain and Able and then read East of Eden. Saying to my grandparents - you need to read The Good Earth - would not have achieved anything because they would not have believed what their son would do after their death, but he was actually raised to do exactly what he did.  Excluding mental illness which is a whole other issue, most of us do what we are raised to do, unless we purposely, mindfully change our path, and the paths of our children.

If you are a true classics lover and have not read this book, time for a visit to the library.

Organic Farmer's Box

We belonged to a CSA (local Organic Farmer) program in 2009.

CSA stands for Community Supported Agriculture. 

We paid for the season up front. We got what we got in the box each week (which was way too many starches and peppers). We had to travel to pick up the box.

The "food/organic farmer box/farmer markets" label at the bottom of this post will take you to all posts related to that topic.

The program we belonged to in 2009 did not work well for us.

I joined a new program this week which I think will work for us.



The differences are -

This program is large (regional, and buying from organic farmers across the country rather than one, local farmer). The diversity of products is pretty huge.

There are organic products available through this program that are not offered (organic) in my local stores.

I am emailed a list of what is (to be) included in my box one week in advance and I can change items to better suit my needs (I can delete items, increase volume of items, add other items). So I can plan what I need to put in my box and what I can buy in my local stores.

The box is delivered to my front porch.

My box arrives on Friday afternoon and I normally batch cook/prep over the weekend.

The program runs year round.

I pay for one week at a time. I can drop at any time. I can suspend a week if we are gone.

My books - The Language of Yoga (2005) by Nicolai Bachman

Here is what I originally wrote, months ago:

The same way it was darned well about time I learned to read translations and was exposed to Hemingway and Steinbeck and Dickens, I decided I needed to mature myself with Sanskrit for yoga.

If you do not know what I am talking about, here are some examples:
Downward Facing Dog - Adho Mukha Svanasana
Extended Side Angle Pose - Utthita Parsvakonasana
Pyramid Pose - Parsvottonasana
Raised Hands Pose - Urdhva Hastasana
Standing Forward Bend - Uttanasana
Standing Straddle Forward Bend - Prasarita

If you are a long time yoga person, you probably know more Sanskrit yoga pose names than I do/should, after all these years. I am embarrassing light/lacking in this area. There are a few names I sort of recognize. There are none that I can came up with and say, on my own. None.

To be very honest, it just sounds like gibberish to me. I suspect I am not a (foreign) language person.

When I am in a yoga class, I rarely look at the instructor. I listen to what the instructor says and I apply it to my own body.

When I am in a class with an instructor who uses mostly Sanskrit, I have to look, because I do not know the words. And that looking sort of moves me out of my own body, off of my own mat. And it (having to look) makes me realize this is an area ready for growth.

I am also an experienced enough yoga person that I really should be thinking in sanskrit as I work through poses in any situation.

Helen very kindly sent me Iyengar's Light on Yoga. I use it often. Great resource of names/poses. But the book does not talk to me. And as you know, in my world, books talk to me. I realized I needed to hear the Sanskrit words to have them really sink into my brain.

That is the first half of this post, written months ago.



Part Two (written last week):

At this same time, I was tired of being in regular yoga classes where the instructors let people look like wadded up tissues in their poses. I do not think that each person needs to be perfect. I know my eyes should be on my own mat. But in classes, one can't help but at least noticing the person who is right in front or beside you, and I was not happy with the instructors who did not help these people. It is (pretty much) ridiculous for a person to have been in yoga classes for YEARS and still not have been helped. And not know they have not been helped. When I see that, this is where my mind goes - what am I doing that is not being corrected/helped either?

So, in the process of wanting more specific help in poses (not necessarily to do harder poses, but to have better positioning in all poses) and thinking that I needed to learn sanskrit, I considered signing up for a 200 level yoga certification class. I was not considering teaching, I was considering the knowledge I would gain. (These classes last many, many months and cost $2000-$3000 for the series.)



If you have been around for a VERY long time, you might remember I signed up for a Master Gardner's Class through the county extension office. And that did not work for me. It turned out that the class did not teach what I wanted to learn. I dropped out (which is very unlike me). And dropping out was the right decision. I signed up with a friend, and she dropped out too (before I did) for the same reason. I remember people in blog land saying they had friends who had done the same thing (when it was not at all what they wanted/thought).

So, as I was thinking about the 200 hour yoga certification class, my Master Gardener Class experience was very much on my mind.



One thing I thought to do was get a leg up on sanskrit. Because part of the 200 hour class requires learning sanskrit. So, I thought - since I know I am not good at it (does not come easily or quickly), I would be smart to get a head start.

I asked around and found The Language of Yoga book which comes with 2 CD's.

I was sorely disappointed. 

The sanskrit I wanted to learn WAS in there/on the CD's. But so was a whole lot of stuff I did not want to know.  A whole lot. And there is no easy way of getting to the parts of the CD with the words I want to learn.  And I realized the class was going to be the same way - I was going to have to learn a whole lot of sanskrit. I was going to have a deadline and a format and I was going to be tested in some way.

And then I realized that the people I was seeing, coming out of 200 level classes, were not so different than anyone else. There were some wadded up tissues in there. And I also realized that there are a lot of different styles of the 500 level instructors who teach the 200 level wanna be's.

By this point, I was pretty sure it was going to be a Master Gardener Class repeat.


I realized two things:
I am an Iyengar girl at heart. I would have to find a program that had that (type of) approach to positioning to really feel like it was a good fit. And it would not need to be a 200 hour certification. It could just be a really good class. (Like my beloved Yoga Lisa who moved to the east coast many years ago).

I might love a 200 hour class, but I would really have to shop around to find the right program (and I am not in a large enough town to do that, would need to be in Chicago or New York or the like for that to work).

I can buy a LOT of private instructor or take a whole lot of workshops for way less than $2000-$3000.


AND


I want to be able to learn things (like sanskrit) at my own pace, not under pressure. And I only want to learn what applies to my own practice, not animals and other sanskrit words. I can do that on my own. It would be better for me to do that on my own.



So, at the end of the day, a $22 book, with CD's included, saved me a lot of time and trouble and expense. I know that was probably not the author's intention, but in the end, that is exactly what happened.